LIFE COMES WITH SO FEW GUARANTEES… DEATH.TAXES…
AND A GUARANTEED AFFAIR!?!

Wildly popular infidelity dating site AshleyMadison.com promises members an “Affair to Remember” within three months or their money back.

The naughty folks at AshleyMadison.com have struck again. In the wake of Oprahs new series “Why Men Cheat,” the dating site specifically designed to help married people cheat on their spouses has announced a brand new promotion. Members who purchase an Ashley Madison “Affair Guarantee” Package and don’t experience an Affair to Remember within three months will receive a complete refund. Take that Match.com! According to Ashley Madison President, Noel Biderman, “Oprah wants to know why men cheat. Because they can! Particularly on Ashley Madison.” Read the rest

Rule of Cheating #10
- Have fun and enjoy yourself

An affair should feel good. If it doesn’t, find a better lover. Every moment should give you an unbearable lightness and sense of well being. When people start to ask why you seem so happy, tell them there must be something going around, and if they are lucky they will catch it too. Then wink, smile, and saunter away.

Rule of Cheating #9
- Communicate your needs and desires with your lover

Be sure that your lover wants the same things out of an affair that you do. Don’t get caught in a fatal attraction.  Venus and Mars not only want different things out of marriages, they also want very different things from affairs.  A man may say he lacks an emotional bond with his wife and needs that from his lover.  What he wants, however, is a physical connection that provides sexual gratification.  Women on the other hand want an emotional connection.  They are happy to forgo sexual intimacy but not romance.

Rule of Cheating #8
- Involve your family with the new you

If you decide you want to improve your body and a gym membership is the answer, encourage your spouse to join the gym too.  Keep your family involved in any changes you make to your physical appearance, spiritual well being, or professional life.  Never embark on activities that will set you apart from the family or your spouse.

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The signs of an affair are usually shown by a cheating spouse as a defensive mechanism, or a method to attract and turn on the lover. Before I proceed to the actual signs that show that your spouse is having an affair, let me tell you that marriage is a very sacred binding that should be respected and maintained by both the partners. One should remember that it is a part of one’s personality and life, and is also the foundation of the institution of a family and society at large.

Signs of an Affair – A Cheating Husband

I know that it can be devastating for any wife to find out about a cheating husband, especially if you have adorable kids. However, you need to treat this situation very carefully and cautiously. First understand the situation, its gravity, its sensitivity and then look for some signs of an affair.

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I recently watched The Marriage Ref which premiered earlier this month. According to Wikipedia.com, the premise of the show involves real life couples who have been having an on-going fight for a long time. A video clip is shown to the three-member celebrity panel, showing both sides of the argument. The panel then discuss the merits of each side of the argument and vote on who they think is right.

While this show is one of the funniest I’ve seen in a long time and aims to do the right thing – give both sides a voice and listen to each argument – it doesn’t necessarily translate into creating change or fostering the proper habits for the couple. It starts to play off of what I call “Smart Heart Skills and Dialogue,” but they were not able to define and enact these skills. The Smart Heart Skills were validated but undone by the actors doing cheerleading into each other being right and wrong. Smart heart skills are not about being right and wrong as opposed to “walking in the others shoes” and making the person feel safe.

How To Use Smart Heart Diologue

When I instruct couples to use Smart Heart Dialogue, it’s as a way to move beyond the anger and blame that typically is placed when an argument or disagreement comes to a stalemate. It can be used for smaller, more inconsequential arguments as well as larger conflicts, even when faced with infidelity.

Utilizing this type of dialogue is important in learning to fight fair as a couple. Fighting and disagreeing are not bad things, in themselves. Learn how to fight fair. It’s a misperception that fighting is bad; a relationship without passion enough to launch arguments likely won’t last for the long haul. However, arguing in the wrong way can also drive a relationship into the ground. I encourage having a weekly ten minute “Smart heart”-to-heart with a figurative emotional “bullet proof vest” to protect from hurt, anger and defensiveness, as you listen and echo back what you heard.

How Smart Heart Diologue Will Help Your Relationship

This type of discussion can open up the doors to putting the emotionality of a certain topic aside – whether it be finances, life decisions, career changes, fidelity, or a host of other things – and allow the couple to be honest with each other in a safe, loving space. Of course, this doesn’t mean that each person has a right to be angry and hurtful – quite the opposite. This exercise is designed to take the heated emotion out of a discussion so that the couple can share their feelings without a threat of emotion or anger getting thrown in the mix.

These types of habits can be the glue that helps to create passion in a relationship, even during and spite of disagreements and conflict. This may start out as basically as telling your partner you HAVEN’T been communicating these feelings and asking them to be patient with you while you learn how to go through this process. It may involve treating eachother with more respect, and being more mindful of the problems at hand during heated arguments.

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Single women, we bet you’ve been guilty of at least one of these missteps in pursuit of a perfect romance — or in attempt to sustain a love connection.

It’s said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So, yes, we know that snooping around our mate’s email account is a bad idea and that believing in the fairy-tale love stories we grew up reading is silly, but sometimes we find ourselves giving these relationship moves the ol’ college try! The results? Not so successful. Plus, we start to feel unbalanced, and perhaps rightly so.
This point is this: there are certain relationship mistakes women make over and over again. Like sleeping in a bad position and waking with a stiff neck, we sometimes don’t realize we’re blundering and repeating until the ouch factor comes into play. Well, it’s time to stop. We’re declaring once and for all: let’s quit! Quitters sometimes prosper, especially when lousy habits get left behind. Here’s the list of relationship blunders we wish we ladies would stop making.

1. Thinking we’ll never get over him. We will. Two months and several powdered donuts later… we’ll feel better. Read the rest

By: henry ezell

If you are the only in the relationship that is trying to reach a resolution, then trying to win ex back may seem like a lonely and difficult proposition. These five steps will help you figure out what it takes to win ex back and will add some optimism to even the bleakest of situations.

1 – First and foremost, be strong if you want to win ex back. Your ex is not going to want you back if you are acting needy or desperate, so it is absolutely vital that you be strong in order to rekindle things over time.

Desperate behavior is going to repel a lost love rather than attract them, and it is vital that you keep this in mind when interacting with your ex in any way. Read the rest

By: Kevin Ng

If you have been trying your luck in seducing the hot women but to no avail then you must read this article. It will help you understand the seduction techniques which would make you win the heart of those hot women you dream about. So let’s get started on the lessons of seduction by men for women. The firs simple seduction techniques are that you need to learn how you can stare at her without looking like a stalker. 

Please keep making an eye contact and see if she is noticing your look or not. Be careful not to look rude either so you can also keep a little grin on your face. If even once she looks at you with a shy glance you have won her heart and she would soon be flirting with you. One of the main seduction techniques is to smell really sexy every time you would be around her. Give attention to your style and hygiene and add the smell which goes with your personality. Women are unable to resist hot and sexy scents of men. So spray just the right amount and you would attract her senses very soon. You can learn how you can be flirtation and talk naughty at the same time. 

Just focus on your lines before saying them and don’t use the most common ones. Be original so that women starts noticing your uniqueness and would start getting attracted towards you. You can compliment her while being in the conversation but don’t give her the impression that you are just interested in her for the night. Take it slowly and take it easy. You don’t need to sound too desperate while making the move. Just be naughty and flirtatious so that she enjoys your witty sense of humor. If the occasion is appropriate you can give her chocolates and send her flowers. This is also one of the major seduction techniques which makes women get attracted towards men.

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Let’s get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she’s so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is – faint heart, never won fair lady.

The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don’t have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl’s attention. Be unique, that’s all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently – indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language – obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits – don’t drink or smoke like any other loser. Read the rest

Author: Kevin Ng

If you are looking for the best way how to approach girl you like, these following are some of easy steps how to approach girls:
1) Know What to Say
One of the cheesiest or rather the creepiest pickup lines that I have ever heard is “Can I have your phone number? I seem to have lost mine”. If you think that a girl is going to fall for a man who says that, then I am sure that you have just approached a girl who has run away from a prison or a mental institution. So before you approach a girl, please consider whatever you might want to say. Instead of reading up stupid pickup lines and memorizing them, think of something simple and more conducive to the environment. Something simple like commenting on the music at the bar might help you start a conversation. Read more on conversation starters with girls.
2) Choose the Right Time
One of the worst mistakes that men make is to approach a girl when she is busy talking to someone or when she is with a large group. No one likes to be disturbed when they are already engaged in a conversation. So be patient and wait for the girl to go for a drink or separate herself from the group before you approach her. In the meantime you can maintain eye contact or smile slightly when you look at her. (Please DO NOT stare or smile like an idiot even if she looks like Megan Fox). If the girl looks at you and smiles back then it might signal that she wants to be approached. However, if she looks away immediately or looks blank every time your eyes meet, then you better look out for a possible rejection (or a slap). Read more on dating tips for men.

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By: Kevin Ng

How to approach girls is a question we commonly receive. Most guys are terrified at the thought of approaching a hot girl. Why is that? Don’t you want a beautiful girlfriend? What is the worst thing that could come out this social interaction? If you would like to find a girlfriend or learn how to be more successful with girls, I would suggest you subscribe to our free dating newsletter.

In the dating newsletter, I answer your questions and give you tips on how to find and get the most beautiful women. Logic tells us that nothing life-threatening can occur while approaching a girl. So why does your brain shut down and you basically loose all verbal skills when dealing with a sexy girl? Anthropologist to Zoologist tells us that meeting an unknown member of the same species is an anxiety-induced experience. Is this a friend or a foe? Will this person club me to death? That is an ancient mindset that continues to stay in our psyche. In the early days, we lived in small tribes of 60 people or so. Out of those 60 people there were probably around 30 girls.

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By: Chris Tyler

If you are like most guys, then you probably feel like there are secrets to female attraction that are somehow out of your reach. You want to know what the right things to do to attract a woman are, but you seem to be missing out on something. Most of what you have been taught works to attract a woman, you know from experience is NOT all that effective. Are there female attraction secrets that you don’t know, but SHOULD? 

You bet there are. Women are pretty discreet when it comes to the things that they REALLY find attractive in a man, and in a lot of cases, they don’t really know what attracts them to certain guys. All they know is that there are some guys out there that they cannot HELP but feel attracted to. 

To help you discover what it is that you NEED to do to attract a woman, here are 5 female attraction tips that you should know, but most women will NEVER tell you: 

1. Women are attracted to men that act like bad boys at the right time. They don’t want a guy that is going to be a total jerk, but they definitely don’t want a guy that is going to act like a total wimp, either. To give yourself that bad boy appeal with women, then you have to become a little more assertive. You cannot be the kind of guy that seems to lack a spine when a beautiful woman is around. 

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By: henry ezell

Are you looking for help to get back together with ex? Do not write the relationship off completely simply because he or she dumped you. If you really want to get back together with ex, you can get the results you seek with some hard work and understanding.

In relationships, people can be truly fickle. For example, in 75 percent of all relationships, the woman calls the relationship. More often than not however, they are also open to re-establishing things. Read the rest

By: Joey GladwellYou have been through this scenario enough times. You meet a beautiful woman and you start dating her, but it never ends up the way you want it to. Or you can’t even get a date with her because she puts you in the “friend zone”. You want to get out of this phase and you want to find love. You want to learn how to make a woman fall madly in love with you. 

Some men are able to get multiple women to love them and find them attractive and you can’t even get one? How does that seem fair? It isn’t fair at all. You deserve to find love and you deserve to find someone who wants to be with you. You just need to change your approach so you can get the girl and so you can make her fall in love. 

It is important that you make a woman laugh. Laughter is essentially the key to any woman’s heart. When you get her laughing, you get her to open up. You get her to expose herself to you in a very personal way. This is when she warms up and when you intrigue her. Now this is when you stop making her laugh or else she is going to get you to go into the friend zone. Laughter is good up until a certain point and then it becomes friendly and only friendly. You want a woman to laugh but then you must do something more than that. 

This is when chivalry and romance are important. Once you get her laughing, you need to put the charm on her. Charm her and she’ll begin to see that you are a great guy and that you are a nice guy. You are going to be the kind of guy that will treat her right in every aspect. Being a gentleman never went out of style and regardless of what you’ve heard in the past, you can be a nice guy and still get a woman. 

A sense of humor and a sense of romance are the two ingredients you need in order to get a woman to fall madly in love with you. By mastering these, you are going to keep her happy both on the inside and out. A woman wants to feel special and she wants to giggle from time to time, so laughter and romance are your keys to getting her to say those 3 little words you have been dying to hear. 

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Don’t leave your future with the woman you love to chance. If you are attracted to a certain woman and you want her to reciprocate those feelings, there are specific things you need to do.

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