If the sex isn’t right do you cheat?
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idatemarriedmen.com visitor Probably Right wants to know:
Just hypothetical. Lots of people out here cheat on their spouses. So if it is your situation and you like your boyfriend/husband-girlfriend/wife and you are in love. They are good to you but the sex is lacking or not good or say your married and it is down to once a month. Do you cheat after awhile or just bear with it or dump them?
What are some reasons you would cheat?
If the sex isn’t right do you cheat? help from other idatemarriedmen.com visitors…
I wouldn’t cheat. My husband I don’t have sex that often but we’re both perfectly fine with it. It’s not like we never do, it’s just not a lot. I am completely in love with him regardless he’s my best friend. I could never deceive him like that. I just don’t have it in me.
There are no reasons as to why I would cheat. I would never do it plain and simple! Why even be married if you plan on cheating?
if a man cannot eat at home and he is hungry.. he MUST go out to eat to survive
A friend of mine was totally in love with his wife, but she never wanted to have sex with him. He started seeing this other woman on the side, a f**k buddy, so to speak. He went on like this for many many months until finally his wife started to want sex with him. He has since stopped seeing his buddy, and they have a normal sexual relationship. He never did tell his wife, I don’t know if she knows.
no,u work on making it right,But when you love someone, even when it’s wrong it’s right…;)
thats how me and my present hubby met and its a marriage of a lifetime. both our ex’es are bullies and a55holes and as our friendship grew, so did our love. our sex life is what we were both looking for – fabulous and great
You can always improve your sex life…if you choose…and of course..she chooses. I don’t think people cheat for sex…I think they cheat because of opportunity…or loneliness…or stupidity. Some people feel divorce would be too expensive…or too much effort…so they just cheat. Lots of reasons
I wouldn’t cheat period.
I would stay with that person and keep myself entertained as best as I could by myself.
The only reason I would cheat is if I was using the cheating as an excuse out of a relationship. I don’t think I would do that though. I would just leave that relationship if I didn’t love the other person anymore or that person didn’t love me.
That’s what’s wrong with people nowadays. They want to take the easy way out. Does anyone work on their relationships anymore? Whatever happened to pillow talk? If your sex life is lacking talk to her. Tell her how you like and what you like. Also just food for thought…..maybe you aren’t good in bed and that’s why she lost interest.
I have never cheated for lack of sex/quality either…
No, you make it better.
i would never cheat on my husband. for one we have sex at least 3 times a week. that’s at least. but even if it was only 3 times a month i wouldn’t leave him because i love him. and if a relationship is that bad that someone feels they should cheat they are better off to get out of the relationship now then later.
Cheating is not an option with me. And if he wasn’t satisfying me enough I would tell him. I would hope there was a good reason behind it. But if it were because he had someone else, then I would divorce him. However, if it were a physical problem then I would stand by him and work it out.
I would not cheat for any reason. I have been cheated on and know how it feels. If I were unhappy in my relationship I would be leaving. Sex is easy to fix you just have to have two willing participants. I someone did not want to have sex with me I would be leaving.
First, lets talk about this lack of sex thing. I believe that if a woman is only putting out once or twice a month, before you go running out for a bump grind with another woman ………… You may need to take a timeout and figure out why she doesn’t want to have sex with you.
Cheat is just what it says it is ……….. You not only cheat on your spouse but you also cheat yourself. So, if any cheaters out there think that they are having their cake and eating it too, tell me ………. What affair do you know of that ended in success?
p.s. I think too highly about myself to cheat. If a woman want to enjoy what I have to offer …….. she better be ready for the Life Plan.
I would NEVER cheat. Either talk to her and tell her you want to try something different to spice up the bedroom and you want sex more than once a month. She might be just as bored as you and welcome the open conversation. Bad sex life is never a reason for cheating. If after talking with her and things don’t change, you have two choices. Either learn to live with this woman you claim to love and do not cheat, OR divorce her, set her free and then go find someone new that meets your bedroom requirements.
if you truly loved them you wouldn’t cheat. if you’re prepared to cheat then you should think about wether the realtionship is over. yes it can be this black and white. it was with me.
there is no reason to cheat, if one feels the need to cheat they should get a divorce4ce, so they don’t end up hurting their spouse.
I think you should exhaust all your resources first, whether it’s counseling, trying out sex toys games etc………. and if that doesn’t work you should go your separate ways. Cheating is so juvenile! Grow up and make an adult decision about your life and your partners
Absolutely not. I don’t think there is a valid reason to cheat. I’d leave before I cheated to be honest. But I think I’d try to work it out somehow first.
I would ,but I would make sure he never knows about it
I wouldn’t cheat. I would do a little research about how to improve our sex life and I would approach him with sensitivity and just make suggestion on new things that I would like to try to spicy things up a bit and I would also encourage him to make some suggestions as well.
I don’t think there are any good reason to cheat. It just takes too much energy and I would rather use that energy for something positive, like improving my current relationship or improving my personal growth.
In conclusion cheating is wrong and pointless it really doesn’t solve a thing and makes the situation worse. At the end of the day its just not worth it.